As today has been another perfect day and all goes great ( I think the Ninja has been caught out by the hot tub he has kept away), I, if you all don’t mind will talk of people that were very good in my life.
Claes Feder is the man that gave me my first job in the Algarve.
Project Manager for his company “Atelier do Sul”
At the time a company car was given to me which left my loser Family in Lisbon with bollocks being scrapped on the “Calcada”
Salary was double of a similar position in Lisbon.
After more or less a a month I had my burst two Duodenal ulcers which happened on a Friday and long story short , I spent the week end unconscious in my bathroom covered in my crap, literally , he questioned on Monday morning if anyone knew where I was, he then sent staff to my apartment and when I did not respond and the car downstairs he ordered the break in via front door and bugger the damage, well then rushed off to hospital where the emergency doctor took a look at my eye balls and he could not find a vein anywhere , immediately put on to blood transfusion where I promptly exhausted the supply of my blood type, end result HE SAVED MY LIFE.
I had heard he had a daughter named Annika who had flown to Sweden to operate on her knee after a fall from her horse , to me immediate thought was “Awww rich bitch fell off her horse, diddums”
When she returned she came to my office and welcomed me to the company and wished me a speedy recovery , I then thought ,WOW she is normal , quick conclusion , within a month and a bit I was living with her shortly after a few months Annika sat on a dirty toilet seat and got pregnant with Jessica.
The most interesting part Claes knew nothing of all this until he had a cocktail party and Annika said enough ! and she took me with her.
when he opened his front door and saw me with his daughter where staff were not welcome except to do something for him his face was like thunder it was a clear look of “What the feck are you doing here AND with my daughter” Berit My mom in law, saved the situation by welcoming me like a regular house guest (she knew everything we had done)
He, very very slowly started accepting me as more that a staff member.
He having started as a Naval architect and being part of the creation of the “Love boat” yest the ship in the series then became on the the best Architect around and he hit the ground running and became “The” architect to go too.
as a “naval ” architect he brought with him concepts I loved, minimize corridors, create useful spaces that other architects would never see in their minds eyes and my favourite, was he could whack a full project in 2 days which left him to not present the project for at least a week or two or he would lose the reason for his “Healthy ” commission , that was a technic that served me well in getting justification for certain services I did to clients in my Independent Project Management years plus a whole lot more on how to be honorable when a crises hit, it allowed generosity towards the client by not invoicing for those things. All work ethics that served me very well. I think by year 8 or 9 he started to treat me like a proper son in law and confided in me some quite private ways he lived and worked.
2009 , he fell and broke his hip , and just went down health wise ( a man that still got the glad eye from a 40 year old women and he was in his 70’s)
Doctors discovered he was riddled with cancer , it was everywhere and it took little time for him too pass away , It will be forever with me when on my last visit too him , he squeezed my hand so so hard when he heard it was me 😦
Shows the type of man he was , told no one he had cancer to the end…
Claes , I still love you is a very special way that only he would understand ( I am now crying ) so hope this was nota a boring post for you great people out there.
Good night.